How to Raise a Healthy Gamer: End Power Struggles, Break Bad Screen Habits, and Transform Your Relationship with Your Kids

How to Raise a Healthy Gamer: End Power Struggles, Break Bad Screen Habits, and Transform Your Relationship with Your Kids

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  • Author:Dr Alok Kanojia
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Reviews

Evan Tony

I'm very proud of you, Dr。 K! I think this was a great book with a lot of fantastic strategies for people of all ages。 I do wish there was a summary chapter to end the book in a bit more of a hopeful note。 I am looking forward to your next installment。 I'm very proud of you, Dr。 K! I think this was a great book with a lot of fantastic strategies for people of all ages。 I do wish there was a summary chapter to end the book in a bit more of a hopeful note。 I am looking forward to your next installment。 。。。more

Rudy Rune

As someone who grew up playing video games and has now quit them, this is an incredibly insightful book。 Not once in my life have I ever been told how to talk to someone in the proper way。 This book has given me a core principle that I'll keep for the rest of my life。 Whenever trying to assist someone in recovering from an addiction, you don't try to get them off of it immediately。 You work with them and slowly, getting them to realize your perspective。 This principle helps me with myself, tryin As someone who grew up playing video games and has now quit them, this is an incredibly insightful book。 Not once in my life have I ever been told how to talk to someone in the proper way。 This book has given me a core principle that I'll keep for the rest of my life。 Whenever trying to assist someone in recovering from an addiction, you don't try to get them off of it immediately。 You work with them and slowly, getting them to realize your perspective。 This principle helps me with myself, trying to work with bad habits I've accumulated over time。 I believe that any person trying to improve themselves should read this books, because the principles in it are not often talked about。 It gave me a new way to think and was structured in a digestible format。 。。。more

Christian Ingersoll

I’m not necessarily the intended audience of this book (I don’t have a child who is addicted to video games ) but decided to check out the audiobook because I think Dr。 K is one of the best voices in the mental health space right now。While I’m not a parent, this book has a lot of useful information on addiction, as well as helpful communication tools that would be good for conflict resolution in any relationship。 Will be taking things such as reflective listening forward and will keep other the I’m not necessarily the intended audience of this book (I don’t have a child who is addicted to video games ) but decided to check out the audiobook because I think Dr。 K is one of the best voices in the mental health space right now。While I’m not a parent, this book has a lot of useful information on addiction, as well as helpful communication tools that would be good for conflict resolution in any relationship。 Will be taking things such as reflective listening forward and will keep other the lessons in mind for when I do have kids (tools in the toolbox) 。。。more

Kate

I skimmed this book because a lot of what Kanojia says are things I’ve already read or known。 That said, I think this is a very good parenting book with clear and helpful advice that can help parents to moderate their child’s gaming (understanding games and their effect on the brain, communicating effectively with your child, boundary setting, involving the child in creating a boundary plan, how to handle resistance from the child and others in the child’s life, etc。)。 A lot of the advice could I skimmed this book because a lot of what Kanojia says are things I’ve already read or known。 That said, I think this is a very good parenting book with clear and helpful advice that can help parents to moderate their child’s gaming (understanding games and their effect on the brain, communicating effectively with your child, boundary setting, involving the child in creating a boundary plan, how to handle resistance from the child and others in the child’s life, etc。)。 A lot of the advice could also applied to other difficult situations。I particularly enjoyed the last section on how mental health can affect a child’s gaming。 Kanojia discusses four specific areas (ADHD, Autism spectrum, depression/anxiety, marijuana use)。 The chapter on marijuana abuse and gaming was full of new, insightful information to me。Kanojia also stresses the importance of a complete mental health evaluation in the last section, something I appreciate as an educator! Parents are often resistant to a mental health evaluation for their child, so it’s always helpful when others are stressing its importance too。Overall, I think this is a good, solid parenting advice book。 I might even recommend it to a few families at my school! 。。。more

Sam

As a gaming parent with a kid who also games, I just wanted to see what kind of signs I may need to look out for if things start to turn unhealthy。 I found the book interesting though everyone's situations and relationship with their children are always different。 The last part of the book dedicated to cannabis seem to come out of left field。。。 As a gaming parent with a kid who also games, I just wanted to see what kind of signs I may need to look out for if things start to turn unhealthy。 I found the book interesting though everyone's situations and relationship with their children are always different。 The last part of the book dedicated to cannabis seem to come out of left field。。。 。。。more

Darwin

nice

Madeline Giancola

How to Raise A Healthy Gamer is the book every millennial parent needs。 It can be hard to find a balance between video games and the rest of life。 As a family who cut out most video game time last summer a plan like this would have been helpful。 I especially appreciate the chapter on autism as it did create a unique struggle as we cut back on technology。

Zan Ban

Best book I've read this decade - EVEN IF you're NOT a parent or a gamer, this book is a must-read。Feeling like your kid's living in their computer or console or phone? Addicted to tech yourself, just like me? Dr。 K's epic book is a lifesaver! This book, by a former gaming-obsessed doc (who gets it!), is a breath of fresh air, and it's about WAY more than just gaming and parenting!!EVEN IF you're NOT a parent or a gamer yourself, this book is a must-read。 Dr。 K cracks the code on communication a Best book I've read this decade - EVEN IF you're NOT a parent or a gamer, this book is a must-read。Feeling like your kid's living in their computer or console or phone? Addicted to tech yourself, just like me? Dr。 K's epic book is a lifesaver! This book, by a former gaming-obsessed doc (who gets it!), is a breath of fresh air, and it's about WAY more than just gaming and parenting!!EVEN IF you're NOT a parent or a gamer yourself, this book is a must-read。 Dr。 K cracks the code on communication and understanding people, especially those who might be a little hooked on something – games, social media, you name it。Forget yelling "screen time's over!" Dr。 K shows you how to actually connect with your child and understand why they love games so much。 Then, he gives you sneaky ninja tricks (okay, maybe not sneaky) to help them find a healthy balance and explore other awesome stuff。This book isn't about punishment, it's about working together。 It's like having a wise, funny friend walk you through the whole video game thing, or any situation where connection seems impossible。 With Dr。 K's help, you can raise a kid who rocks both the real world and the digital one (or, you know, just navigate any relationship with a newfound understanding)。 。。。more

Toby

Excellent book。 The people who would find this most useful are parents with kids from childhood to dependent adults。 Others can enjoy it too, since it's not merely a manual, but a dive into understanding how video games fulfill needs and are engineered to lure you in。 Excellent book。 The people who would find this most useful are parents with kids from childhood to dependent adults。 Others can enjoy it too, since it's not merely a manual, but a dive into understanding how video games fulfill needs and are engineered to lure you in。 。。。more

Robert Bowen

It’s an extremely written book if you are a parent/guardian or even a relative of a child with an “addiction” to video games。 One note - i’ve recommended this book to several other people, and I always give them the same warning:Early on in the book the author discusses his background and it’s unfortunately comes across, or at least did to me, as if the book is going to have a very spiritual/religious way of dealing with the issue。 This is fortunately not the case。 It winds up being a very well It’s an extremely written book if you are a parent/guardian or even a relative of a child with an “addiction” to video games。 One note - i’ve recommended this book to several other people, and I always give them the same warning:Early on in the book the author discusses his background and it’s unfortunately comes across, or at least did to me, as if the book is going to have a very spiritual/religious way of dealing with the issue。 This is fortunately not the case。 It winds up being a very well written book with a lot of great advice and strategies that are easy to follow。The author takes quite a bit of time to explain how to bring things on gradually versus an all at once approach which ultimately would likely backfire。 。。。more

Nasir

Dr。 Kanoji does a fantastic job illustrating the plight that millions of gamers worldwide find themselves mired in。 I am gravely appreciative to have identified an individual intimately associated with video game addiction and is not merely speaking distally, as is commonly recognized。 It was reassuring not to hear the cliche "how about you just stop playing so much and focus on something else?" attitude。 Contrarily, the reader is provided with information and tools predicated on personal experi Dr。 Kanoji does a fantastic job illustrating the plight that millions of gamers worldwide find themselves mired in。 I am gravely appreciative to have identified an individual intimately associated with video game addiction and is not merely speaking distally, as is commonly recognized。 It was reassuring not to hear the cliche "how about you just stop playing so much and focus on something else?" attitude。 Contrarily, the reader is provided with information and tools predicated on personal experience and clinical observations from a place of compassion。The cognitive processes and daily experience of a gamer articulated by Dr。 K demonstrate that video games are universally abused for similar reasons--that is, to satisfy an inherent need。 His thorough deliberation concerning how video games quench our innate necessities, essentially by emulating a surrogate, is remarkably enlightening。 Dr。 K briefly but sufficiently--palatable to those with no science background--delineates the neurobiology and psychology working in parallel with addiction。 Due to their subtle but ubiquitous implications, I consider elementary Freudian defense mechanisms vital in quasi-understanding peers and children。 Apprehending the irrational human nature of defending the non-sensical and avenues of denial seems immensely beneficial。Several psycho-therapeutic and interpersonal tools are repeatedly mentioned throughout this book, which may provide parents with serious leverage in their parent-child relationships if adeptly implemented。 Additionally, the brief elaboration on sub-optimal parental behavior reveals a few taboos I will avoid as a future parent--for example, the material concerning the institution of unwavering boundaries and solid familial underpinnings。I would be remiss if I did not mention that Dr。 K's complementary yogic traditions, which he infrequently explores, are brilliant。 * This review is not in any way, shape, or form even remotely comprehensive。 ** Four stars because the same points become enumerated ad nauseam since the reader is encouraged to leap between sections。As a former gaming addict, future parent, and aspiring psychiatrist whom Dr。 K's online content has heavily influenced, I cannot recommend this book enough to people closely related to gamers。 The matter may be covertly or manifestly pertinent to your relationship with them and will equip you with an understanding of why they are invariably fixated on the screen。 。。。more

Genni

I usually include a rating for writing, but ignored that this time。 If you are a parent, and have worried about technology, then chances are you’ve already done some reading on this subject。 If so, some of the information about how addiction works will be familiar。 If not, then it’s an extremely accessible way to learn。 However, the tips that follow for those whose kids are already in the throes of addiction were the most valuable part of the book。 If you are wondering how to engage with your ch I usually include a rating for writing, but ignored that this time。 If you are a parent, and have worried about technology, then chances are you’ve already done some reading on this subject。 If so, some of the information about how addiction works will be familiar。 If not, then it’s an extremely accessible way to learn。 However, the tips that follow for those whose kids are already in the throes of addiction were the most valuable part of the book。 If you are wondering how to engage with your child on the subject, then this is an excellent place to start。 。。。more

Julia Hall

This book was just what I needed。 I’m raising 2 gamers。 I thought the advice given and behavioral cases was spot on。 It gave great insight in reinforcing healthy boundaries and breaking addiction。

Losvaize

I like Dr。 Kanojia's work across the board。 This book gets very specific into helping parents deal with kids who play video games excessively as well as helping to define those situations。 While not having kids myself, I believe this book would have helped my parents when I was younger approach me in a more human way。 And that might be the real value in this book, how to interact with your kids in a way that gets them to feel like they matter while still maintaining the control of a parent。 I like Dr。 Kanojia's work across the board。 This book gets very specific into helping parents deal with kids who play video games excessively as well as helping to define those situations。 While not having kids myself, I believe this book would have helped my parents when I was younger approach me in a more human way。 And that might be the real value in this book, how to interact with your kids in a way that gets them to feel like they matter while still maintaining the control of a parent。 。。。more

Bianca

I don’t have a kid or even want a kid and I still think this book is relevant to anyone and everyone。 You can think of it as a manual on how to communicate with those who are truly going through it。 If you think about it, all the tools you need to be the ultimate and best communicator/listener are needed when it comes to approaching addiction。 I was genuinely sad that this book ended because I was learning so much。 side note: it makes you go back and somewhat heal from your past if you didn’t ha I don’t have a kid or even want a kid and I still think this book is relevant to anyone and everyone。 You can think of it as a manual on how to communicate with those who are truly going through it。 If you think about it, all the tools you need to be the ultimate and best communicator/listener are needed when it comes to approaching addiction。 I was genuinely sad that this book ended because I was learning so much。 side note: it makes you go back and somewhat heal from your past if you didn’t have a supportive environment growing up。 you don’t need any history of gaming addiction to adore this book 。。。more

Chumchou

I’m a big fan of Dr。 K and the work that is being done at Healthy Gamer。 Straight up this is a fantastic book about raising kids in the digital age of gaming。

Brad Gulka

Great book for any parents with kids that love video games!

Aimee F。

AUDIOAs a mom of teenagers (one who loves technology and gaming) - this was very relevant and relatable。 I hope to continue the parenting journey with some extra tools in my toolbelt。

Mila

I am an addiction therapist and two years ago I freaked out when I started noticing that our kid shows all signs of addiction when she uses technology (games, social media etc。) For a long time, my primary feeling regarding this question was panic。 Panic is not a place where we can start a constructive conversation。 Nevertheless, I paniced more and more。 I mean 。。。 I've seen heroin addicts who behave more chill and rational when they are in acute abstinence。。。 so how not to freak out? The book h I am an addiction therapist and two years ago I freaked out when I started noticing that our kid shows all signs of addiction when she uses technology (games, social media etc。) For a long time, my primary feeling regarding this question was panic。 Panic is not a place where we can start a constructive conversation。 Nevertheless, I paniced more and more。 I mean 。。。 I've seen heroin addicts who behave more chill and rational when they are in acute abstinence。。。 so how not to freak out? The book helps me understand several blind spots that I have had。 The kid is not a rational adult who realizes their problem and comes to seek help, I can't expect the same level of insight, I have to work together with her to see how her mood is affected by tech while we establish healthy boundaries (versus the prohibitions that are more and more difficult to impose to a growing kid) and not use the boundaries as a substitute for understanding。The science communication in the book is very well-balanced and very accessible for everyone (not only to me but also to my husband who is not in my field)。 The action steps are very well explained。 I even consider recommending it to some of my patients。 。。。more

Jarvis

As a ludologist, I bought this book to study。 However, after reading it, I believe this is the best book for a parent with a child who has an unhealthy relationship with video games。As someone who struggled with video game addiction in my childhood, I wish this book would have been around many years ago for my parents to read。The book is very thorough and it outlines the approach I hope to take someday if I too become the parent of a gamer。

Katelyn

I would recommend this to anyone who has a relationship with a child。 It’s an amazing book with overarching communication principles that can be applied to many different situations。

Hawk Shi

a practice guide to solve gaming addiction

Leo

can't wait to read it thank you dr。k <3 can't wait to read it thank you dr。k <3 。。。more

Annie

Originally posted on my blog Nonstop Reader。 How to Raise a Healthy Gamer is an interesting and well written monograph by Dr。 Alok Kanojia on the challenges of balancing screen engagement, especially in a family dynamic (which often comes down to parents nagging kids to log off and interact with the real world)。 Released 12th March 2024 by Penguin Random House on their Rodale Books imprint, it's 304 pages and is available in hardcover, audio, and ebook formats。 It's worth noting that the eboo Originally posted on my blog Nonstop Reader。 How to Raise a Healthy Gamer is an interesting and well written monograph by Dr。 Alok Kanojia on the challenges of balancing screen engagement, especially in a family dynamic (which often comes down to parents nagging kids to log off and interact with the real world)。 Released 12th March 2024 by Penguin Random House on their Rodale Books imprint, it's 304 pages and is available in hardcover, audio, and ebook formats。 It's worth noting that the ebook format has a handy interactive table of contents as well as interactive links and references throughout。 The author does a good job of arranging the information (and there's a *lot* of info here) in logical progressive chapters where the info is easy to find。 He explains the background psychology (understanding) in layman accessible terms, followed by chapters on communication (talk), and making and implementing plans for healthy online time (act)。 He also discusses troubleshooting, what to expect, timelines, as well as some ways neurodivergence (ADHD, autism spectrum, depression/anxiety, and possible substance abuse issues) can impact progress。 The author/publisher have also included appendices: timelines and working prompts to help the process, a solid bibliography with chapter note references。The book is aimed at parents who are not medical professionals, and as such is quite easy to understand and utilize。 It's a different method of interaction which places a great deal of emphasis on empathy, communication, and understanding (and openness), rather than forcing, nagging, punishing, and negative communication patterns。Four and a half stars。 Disclosure: I received an ARC at no cost from the author/publisher for review purposes。 。。。more

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5 ⭐️ +++Parental gold。 A MUST READ!🎓 Schools should give this to parents of rising kindergartners。 🍼 Parents-to-be should get this as a baby shower gift。 🎅🏼 This should be in every stocking for parents that have mentioned struggling with their children focusing or wanting to do anything other than YouTube/Gaming, etc。 (me 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️)Even if your child isn’t (yet) obsessed with gaming, the psychology is worth knowing to help prevent it。 📖 I was already impressed with this book within the fir 5 ⭐️ +++Parental gold。 A MUST READ!🎓 Schools should give this to parents of rising kindergartners。 🍼 Parents-to-be should get this as a baby shower gift。 🎅🏼 This should be in every stocking for parents that have mentioned struggling with their children focusing or wanting to do anything other than YouTube/Gaming, etc。 (me 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️)Even if your child isn’t (yet) obsessed with gaming, the psychology is worth knowing to help prevent it。 📖 I was already impressed with this book within the first chapter - What Makes Gaming So Addictive (the Neurochemistry)。 Seriously, the psychology behind this really proves the addictive qualities and how it shapes our youth。 😱 So much helpful insight, like studies showing that having a game in a child’s room increases usage of up to 50 percent。🫡 This book helps parents to come from a place of understanding, both for the psychology of it and your child’s drive for it, get on the same team as your child, and create a better environment with boundaries, structure and healthy habits。 🩺 It even covers topics like ADHD, Autism and Marijuana as it pertains to gaming addiction。❌ What this book does NOT do, is tell you to take away gaming completely。 That’s not what this is about, and it even discourages that。😳 There were some extremely eye opening parts, including how much we enable kids to be less responsible, without realizing what we are doing。 There is also a really great cheat sheet in the appendix to refer back to as a reference guide。Thanks to NetGalley, Rosalie, Inc。, and Alok Kanojia MD MPH for providing me with a complimentary ARC to review! 。。。more

lia

being an older sister is wanting to read this book to help raise your little brother who’s addicted to video games LMAO

Cari

As a parent with two screen-obsessed children, I needed this book。 Although "it could be worse" with my kids--they don't exhibit all the behaviors of addiction--there are definitely some things that need to change, and I don't want to be a complacent parent。 This book really helped me figure out exactly what I needed to know to communicate with my kids about games and even screens in general。 Using gentle and mindful techniques, Dr。 Kanojia probes the questions of why games are so addictive and As a parent with two screen-obsessed children, I needed this book。 Although "it could be worse" with my kids--they don't exhibit all the behaviors of addiction--there are definitely some things that need to change, and I don't want to be a complacent parent。 This book really helped me figure out exactly what I needed to know to communicate with my kids about games and even screens in general。 Using gentle and mindful techniques, Dr。 Kanojia probes the questions of why games are so addictive and what is really going on in a child's head when they engage with games。 I've already enacted some of the practices to great results。 I asked my younger son why he was watching YouTube, and he said because he was bored。 I asked him what he would like to do, and he said he wanted to play board games。 Two games of Happy Little Dinosaurs and Clue later, I had successfully pried my child away from his screen。 This is a must-buy for public libraries and a great resource for anyone struggling with game-focused behavior in their children。 。。。more

Sam

To say my hype was off the charts for not only seeing this available on NetGalley but also accepted as an early reviewer would be an understatement。 (With that, I did receive this book for free in exchange for an honest review!) I am a MASSIVE fan of Dr。 K and Healthy Gamer。 I think him and his team do such amazing and life changing work。 Hilarious timing how I was lamenting to my mom not too long ago about how disappointed I was that he hadn't yet written a book, and here it is! (And I hope the To say my hype was off the charts for not only seeing this available on NetGalley but also accepted as an early reviewer would be an understatement。 (With that, I did receive this book for free in exchange for an honest review!) I am a MASSIVE fan of Dr。 K and Healthy Gamer。 I think him and his team do such amazing and life changing work。 Hilarious timing how I was lamenting to my mom not too long ago about how disappointed I was that he hadn't yet written a book, and here it is! (And I hope there are many more!)Speaking as someone who is NOT in the target audience for this book (I am not a parent at all, let alone of any gamers), I still found I got a LOT out of this book。 Putting aside having a nephew who is getting really into gaming, there is SO MUCH in this book that can apply to, well, anything other than gaming。 These are all basic psychological concepts that are used with gaming in mind, but if you're familiar enough with psychology, or really take your time with this book, keep an open mind, and see how these concepts may apply outside of gaming, there is so much knowledge to take away here that could be generally helpful to one's life。With that, I could see this being a book I'd say every parent should read in general。 It covers gaming addiction, but it could be applied to other media addictions or issues too。 TV, social media, etc。 Even just dealing with setting boundaries or ground rules in your household。 The bare bones of the book is communicating and trying to understand your child。 Building bridges to work together to cross over and reach goals (both yours AND, importantly, theirs too!)。 Treat them like an actual person, no matter their page, and let them feel like their thoughts and feelings matter。 Something I think a LOT of adults dismiss about children。 Dr。 K also goes into detail about ADHD, autism, depression, anxiety, and marijuana addiction on top of just gaming addiction, and how those things can overlap or even make things worse or more difficult for someone。 (Again, replace "games" with other things, and this book covers a LOT!) As someone with depression and anxiety disorders, and suspected ADHD, I definitely felt heard reading those sections of the book。 He does a fantastic job explaining these topics and gives parents really great suggestions on approaching how to deal with children with these afflictions。Along with that, Dr。 K also discusses what to do with other adults in the child's life, such as a spouse or ex, grandparents, and the child's friend's parents。 Really lots of great advice there too。 If not everyone is on board to make changes, it can cause a lot of cracks to fall into, and Dr。 K does his best to give you the resources you need to build a solid foundation from the get-go。Fact: From a neuroscientific perspective, gamers are actually more immature than non-gamers。 Knowing that his audience is largely gamers, as that is his brand image, I just found this line to be hilarious。 He's not wrong, but, you know xD[。。。] the more we strive--or intervene in our kid's lives--to keep them from failing, the more easily they will give up the responsibility to do things for themselves。 Speaking from personal experience here, I was extremely babied by my parents growing up, and having to break out of that helplessness-mindset has been one of the most difficult things for me to do。 I super appreciate how much discussion the author put here in laying out how completely coddling a child can have long-term negative side effects。If I'm sailing a boat, and I change my course by just one degree, after a year of traveling, I'll end up in a completely different place than if I hadn't made that slight course correction。 That's our goal。 I love how much hope and optimism there is in this book。 Again, while I'm not a parent, that quote in general can apply to so many things。 He's not unrealistic about the work it will take to get there, it for sure isn't a simple or quick process, but it's doable, and he certainly does his best in making you feel capable in achieving it。Appendixes in the book give quick overviews for skimming and getting reminders in case there are details you've forgotten or need help with, along with a potential timeline to follow。Overall, such a fantastic read! I didn't want to rush through it since it was so much to digest。 (I took so many screenshots to save for later。 You could spend countless hours writing notes and journaling from this book--kids or no kids, gaming addiction or no, haha。) It was a nice way to sort of hold a mirror to myself as well。 I definitely recommend this book, and Dr。 K's YouTube channel HealthyGamerGG! So glad I was able to get a copy, I'll for sure be picking up copies of this to others in my life no doubt。 :) 。。。more

Lindsay Williams

Thank you Netgalley for the chance to read How To Raise A Healthy Gamer and to Rodale books, and Alok Kanojia,MD, MPH。 I found this book on Netgalley and I felt like it was made for me as a parent。 I have a 12 year old boy。 Need I say more? In today's world are we doing what we should with electronics? Are our kids getting to much electronics? Are they being exposed to too much violence? These are questions I ask my child's doctora and I do get different answers。 I get feedback from a "old schoo Thank you Netgalley for the chance to read How To Raise A Healthy Gamer and to Rodale books, and Alok Kanojia,MD, MPH。 I found this book on Netgalley and I felt like it was made for me as a parent。 I have a 12 year old boy。 Need I say more? In today's world are we doing what we should with electronics? Are our kids getting to much electronics? Are they being exposed to too much violence? These are questions I ask my child's doctora and I do get different answers。 I get feedback from a "old school professional grandmother" saying I am doing it all wrong when doctors say it is fine。 So this book I will read and thank you for writing it!Now about the book。 This book goes into great detail at why our kids love video games。 Also about why their minds tend to be tontrolled over video games because they are exposed to not just video games on the topic but you tube and Tiktok as well。 This book can help us as parents to break our children's addiction to electronics。 It's our guide。 But the good thing it it helps us to teach our kids to use them as a healthy gamer not as social connection which is unhealthy。 I think I would like to give this a try with my son。 Am I scared yes I am! Can we all work together and do this yes。 I thing a book with a step by step guide is a fantastic idea and I'm so glad a person was caring enough to make that happen。 。。。more

Angela Owen

When I saw this book I knew I had to read it considering I have a son who absolutely loves gaming。I found the book very interesting and enjoyed reading about the reasons why gaming can be so addictive。I felt the book was really helpful and gave lots of good advice to cut down gaming time and how to approach this with your child。 I will definitely be implementing lots of the things advised。That’s to Netgalley Dr Alok Kanojia and Pan MacMillan for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest and unb When I saw this book I knew I had to read it considering I have a son who absolutely loves gaming。I found the book very interesting and enjoyed reading about the reasons why gaming can be so addictive。I felt the book was really helpful and gave lots of good advice to cut down gaming time and how to approach this with your child。 I will definitely be implementing lots of the things advised。That’s to Netgalley Dr Alok Kanojia and Pan MacMillan for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest and unbiased review 。。。more